You know it is said that when you look good you become a people magnet. Studies have shown that people are drawn to an aesthetically pleasing appearance. I’m not saying that you have to be drop dead gorgeous but you do need to package yourself attractively.
If you take the time to groom yourself and wear flattering clothing that fits your body and is appropriate for the occasion, you are demonstrating that you care about your appearance and have confidence in yourself. Others will also have confidence in you, unless you give them reason not to.
On the flip side, if you look thrown together or have on clothes that do not fit or are outdated then you are communicating that you don’t care about your appearance, you are out of touch or even that you have low self esteem. Others will respond to you in like manner.
I know it isn’t fair but it is reality. Think about the goal that you are trying to accomplish. Is it to get the job that you have been seeking, to be taken seriously as a contender for a promotion or to get that committee chair position that you have hoped for? Whatever the goal is for you, dress yourself appropriately to meet that goal. A polished image is a powerful tool to have in your handy tool bag. Don’t leave home without it.
About the Author: Valerie Hatcher of Your Total Image teaches women how to dress for success-enabling them to look fashionable, stylish and confident. She shows them how to build an effective personal brand to achieve social and professional success. Visit Your Total Image at www.yourtotalimage.net and sign up for the monthly newsletter filled with tips.
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