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Style Secrets 7-9

Wednesday, August 25th, 2010

At last, we are at the end of our Style Secrets. I hope that I haven’t kept you waiting too long to receive these last 3 Style Secrets.  These are a bit different than the first six but are definitely things we need to remember that will help you on our journey to becoming “the Stylish You.”

7.  Learn the secrets of Fabulous Grooming: Grooming is one of the most essential and important rules of all.  Your hands and nails should be clean and neat whenever you go out and present yourself.   Although summer is almost over, it is important to remember our feet.  Feet should be clean, moisturized, toe nails trimmed and if polish is used make sure it is not chipping.  You would not believe how many people pay attention to our feet. Makeup is also a part of the grooming process.  These days the trend is “less is more.”   The right makeup can take years off your look.

8.  Be Gracious, Well Mannered and Charming: We talk about feeling and looking self confident.  We must go that extra step and also behave in a “stylish” manner. This completes the entire picture.   Some things may seem to be common sense but believe me, not everyone has a clue.  For instance, do you know the correct etiquette for introducing people or even  for mobile phone usage in public?   Knowing a few social graces never hurts.  They say beauty is only skin deep.  True grace and style takes alot more effort but this is what people will remember and respect.

9.  Get Professional Advice: It’s not always easy to know how to be confident and stylish, how to enhance your appearance through the right clothing or how to use proper etiquette in the right situations.  This is a process of continual learning.  We should all strive to improve ourselves and sometimes the best way to do this is to seek professional help.  Always know that I am here to help you with your image needs.

I hope you have enjoyed the 9 Style Secrets mini series.  You might need to go back and review secrets 1-6 as a refresher.  Keep them handy if you need a reminder.   It was actually good for me to revisit some of these tips.  If you’ve been following along you know that these came to me in the midst of a basketball tournament.  Well,  summer basketball is over so I will need to find new avenues of inspiration for writing ideas.

Until next time

About the Author: Valerie Hatcher, owner of Your Total Image works with professional women who enjoy clothing and understand the importance of their image to their success.   She teaches them how to dress for success-enabling them to look fashionable, stylish and confident.   Visit Your Total Image at www.yourtotalimage.net and sign up for the monthly newsletter filled with tips.

Style Secrets 1-3

Sunday, July 18th, 2010

I have been at a basketball tournament all weekend.  I really take pleasure in people watching and use this as my opportunity to think of articles to write.  Today I played a little game in my mind called “Style Secrets.”  As I looked around, I thought of a few secrets that I wanted to share with others.  As a matter of fact, thus far I have come up with nine.  While it may not have been appropriate to share my secrets with strangers, I have decided to share them with you, the readers. 

Because I am in between basketball games I am going to share three with you now and you will need to stay tuned for the others.  

#1 Be Confident with who you are: Many people spend alot of time wishing they looked like someone else who has the ideal body image.  One thing to remember is this really is just an ”idealized image” and does not represent what the majority of us are really like.  It is important to recognize your attributes rather than concentrating on the imperfections.  Believing in yourself will automatically send positive signals about the person you really are. 

#2 Dress to flatter your body shape: You first need to know your body shape.  If you need help determining your body shape,  here is a link to one of my newsletters that might be helpful. http://community.icontact.com/p/yourtotalimage/newsletters/december2/posts/dressing-your-body   As you will see, there are basically 6 common body shapes.  By knowing your body shape, you can choose clothes that flatter your body and camouflage the parts that you don’t want to emphasize. 

#3 Buy colors that look good on you: Wearing the wrong color can make you look sick.  Wearing the right color can have a great impact on your self confidence and your behavior.  When you know your colors you know what clothing, accessories and make up to buy.  Color is very powerful.  It can direct or divert the eye and communicate emotion.

About the Author: Valerie Hatcher of Your Total Image teaches women how to dress for success-enabling them to look fashionable, stylish and confident.  She shows them how to build an effective personal brand to achieve social and professional success.  Visit Your Total Image at www.yourtotalimage.net and sign up for the monthly newsletter filled with tips.